End-of-Life Care & Grief Resources

The later stages of pancreatic cancer often bring difficult decisions about care, comfort, and quality of life. For caregivers, family members, and friends, these moments are emotionally overwhelming. At Sky Foundation, we understand this deeply—our board, committees, and communities are filled with survivors and families who have faced these realities. This resource is here to help you navigate end-of-life care and grief with compassion and clarity.

Understanding Palliative vs. Hospice Care

Palliative care can begin at any stage of illness and focuses on symptom relief, emotional support, and quality of life alongside treatment.

Hospice care is typically recommended when life expectancy is six months or less. It emphasizes comfort, dignity, and support for both the patient and the family.

As a caregiver, ask your loved one’s medical team:

What symptoms can palliative care help with now?
When is hospice the right choice?
How can hospice support caregivers and families?

Preparing for Difficult Conversations

Facing the reality of end-of-life care requires open, compassionate communication.

Talk about wishes early: Ask about preferred settings for care (home, hospital, or hospice facility).
Document decisions: Use advance directives, living wills, or healthcare proxies.
Involve the whole family: Hold family meetings to share updates and avoid miscommunication.
Acknowledge emotions: Fear, sadness, or disagreement is natural—listening is as important as planning.

Supporting Caregivers & Families During End-of-Life

The emotional weight on caregivers during this stage is immense. Practical steps can help:

Accept help with meals, errands, or caregiving shifts.
Ask hospice teams about respite care options.
Take time for breaks, even short walks or naps.
Seek counseling or caregiver support groups to process grief in real time.

Grief Support After Loss

Grief is not linear—it unfolds differently for everyone. Some may feel deep sadness, while others feel numb or even relieved that their loved one is no longer suffering. All reactions are valid.

Give yourself permission to grieve: Avoid self-criticism for how you “should” feel.
Seek support groups: Talking with others who’ve experienced loss can reduce isolation.
Honor your loved one’s memory: Journaling, creating a photo book, or joining a memorial event can bring healing.
Support children and teens: Encourage open expression and age-appropriate explanations.

Key Takeaway

End-of-life care and grief are among the most difficult parts of the pancreatic cancer journey. By understanding the role of palliative and hospice care, having honest conversations, and seeking grief support, caregivers and families can honor their loved one’s wishes while protecting their own well-being. Sky Foundation provides survivor-led communities, caregiver support, and Legacy Giving opportunities to ensure your loved one’s story continues to inspire hope and change.